My work schedule has recently changed in such a way that I can probably get online more often when time permits. So that means maybe more time for SA like from the days of yore?
The only thing is that I no longer have anything much to say these days. Things are running along fine and is pretty uneventful actually.
However, I do have a friend of a friend who owes a lot of money. Let's call them "L" and "E". L is a super nice guy. Took E and his girlfriend at the time in when they were super strapped. Housed them. Fed them. Even helped E find a job at his company.
And how does E repay L's gratitude? Well, actually that's the problem. He has not at all. If the story ended there, then things would have been fine though, as L is a super chill guy who is just generally to help his friends out in times of need.
However, E has since broken up with that girlfriend and is now dating L's sister-in-law. And they would constantly stay out and party late, and wouldn't answer phone calls to see if they are safe or not.
When L try to talk to E about these things, E would blame L for being nosy and how he will continue to live his life as he sees fit.
And now, E has taken L off his birthday event or something like that, citing that incident as the reason why... that L was somehow being a jerk. Nevermind the fact that E still has NOT even TRIED to pay off his debt to L for basically housing and feeding E for months at a time.
Even though it's a friend of a friend, it's bothering me too. I have done that myself once in the distant past, and I ended up with about the same results as well. So, I can certainly empathize, although I am so glad that I no longer have that issue.
I'm back. Kinda.
September 4th, 2016 at 04:31 pm
September 4th, 2016 at 05:16 pm 1473009405
September 4th, 2016 at 06:06 pm 1473012387
I do the same thing too. Just have absolutely no contact with E.
September 4th, 2016 at 08:36 pm 1473021392
September 4th, 2016 at 11:49 pm 1473032947
Justified in a weird way for not paying it back.