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Life is short

January 3rd, 2026 at 11:38 pm

I just found out that two of my former co-workers have either died or is dying.  Well, let explain.  One died recently of acute liver failure.  The other is dying of stage 4 cancer that has unfortunately spread to the point where he is not expected to be around for much longer.  Chemo has only slowed down the inevitable.

They are or were both still so young to me.  Neither have reached age 60 yet.

Both were or are shining beacons to the rest of us, always so tireless and capable, and were so much fun to work with.  If you were to ever call for help or 911, they were the kind of people you wish and pray would show up to come help you.

I don't really have a point to this entry.  If anything, I guess I do feel bad that my past few entries have been nothing but downers, but I just found out about all this like 5 minutes ago.  In moments like this, life certainly feels short though, and fate seems to have a habit of claiming the best of us, a little too early.

7 Responses to “Life is short”

  1. GoodLiving Says:
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    That's always hard news to hear. It certainly does have us think about our own mortality. This is also all the more reason why I want to retire earlier than later because life is short and sweet - sometimes bittersweet.

    I hope you consider taking that cruise!

  2. Tabs Says:
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    Yeah actually I chose to retire early as well, because that's what I would prefer to do with what's left of my time and energy.

    What's kind of unfortunate is, with both of these co-workers, I've had that good ole "What would you do if you won the Powerball lottery" conversation with them, they both said they would retire early. Not because they can't do the job or they don't enjoy it somehow, but they would want to spend more time with friends and family, live and laugh a bit more, and maybe even check off a thing or two off their bucket list....

    I hope they are able to get some of that bucket list checked off. Especially in moments like this, I definitely don't regret retiring early. It's not perfect, and I have to be careful financially, but yeah... no regrets.

  3. Petunia 100 Says:
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    I'm very sorry to read of your co-workers health issues. You are so right that life is short. We all should grab as much enjoyment and happiness as we can.

  4. Frugal N NE Says:
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    I’m sorry about your coworkers health.

  5. Dido Says:
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Definitely an incentive to pursue your own bucket list!

  6. Petunia Says:
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    Agree, it is short, and this seems more noticeable every year that passes. I'm sorry to hear about your coworkers - they sound like great people.

  7. LivingAlmostLarge Says:
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    2024 was my rough year. It was a lot of people close passing and it is always hard. I lost two coworkers that year as well!

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